February 06, 2012   13 Sh'vat 5772
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 Provide an open, warm atmosphere for participation and spiritual nourishment in which men and women take part equally in all aspects of Jewish ritual.  We have Shabbat Services every Friday evening and Saturday morning.  The first Friday of each month is a 'Family Service' in which we include our children in songs, stories and worship. For our youngest families, we offer scheduled Tot Shabbat services throughout the year.  Our congregation holds a monthly Service of Peace, Comfort and Healing as well as celebration and commemoration of all Holiday observances, both modern and traditional.

SHABBAT SERVICES  

SHABBATH SERVICES

Shabbat Symbols: Candles, hallah, wine, prayer book

Services are every Friday at 8:15pm and Saturday at 10:30am.
On Saturday, there is Torah Study beginning at 9:15am unless otherwise noted.
NOTE: During the months of July and August, Saturday morning Shabbat services begin at 9:15am
ALSO: On the first and third Friday of each month, we celebrate
Kabbalat Shabbat at 6:30pm.
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Temple Calendar to verify above dates and times.

 

TORAH/HAFTORAH PORTIONS

COMMON DATE

JEWISH DATE

     TORAH PORTION

HAFTORAH PORTION

11.04.11

08 Cheshvan

Lech Lecha; Genesis 12:1-17:27 Isaiah 40:27-41:16

11.11.11

15 Cheshvan

Vayera; Genesis 18:1-22:24 II Kings 04:1-04:37

11.18.11

22 Cheshvan

Chaye Sarah; Genesis 23:01-25:18 I Kings 01:01-01:31

11.25.11

29 Cheshvan

Toldot; Genesis 25:19-28:09 Malachi 01:01-02:07

12.02.11

07 Kislev

Vayetze; Genesis 28:10-32:3 Hosea 12:13-14:10

12.09.11

14 Kislev

Vayishlach; Genesis 32:04-36:43 Obadiah 01:01-01:21

12.16.11

21 Kislev

Vayeshev; Genesis 37:01-40:23 Amos 02:06-03:08

12.23.11

28 Kislev

Miketz; Genesis 41:01-44:17 Ezekiel 37:15-37:28

12.31.11

05 Tevet

01.06.12

12 Tevet

Veyechi; Genesis 47:28-50:26 I Kings 02:01-02:12

01.13.12

19 Tevet

Shemot; Exodus 01:01-06:01

Haftarah-Isaiah 27:06-28:13; 29:22-29:23

01.20.12

26 Tevet

Va’era; Exodus 06:02-09:35

Ezekiel 28:25-29:21

01.27.12

04 Shevat

Bo; Exodus 10:1-13:16

Jeremiah 46:13-46:28

02.03.12

11 Shevat

Behallach; Exodus 13:17-17:16

Judges 04:04-05:31

02.10.12

18 Shevat

Yitro; Exodus 18:01-20:23

Isaiah 06:01-07:06; 09:05-09:06

02.17.12

25 Shevat

Mishpatim; Exodus 21:01-24:18

Jeremiah 34:08-34:22; 33:25-33:26

02.24.12

02 Adar

Terumah; Exodus 25:01-27:19

I Kings 05:26-06:13

03.03.12

09 Adar

 

Dear Friends: 

Shabbat Greetings

We like to refer to them as "The Ten Plagues." But we might, just as easily, call them "natural disasters." With each Makah (plague), as they are called in Hebrew, Egypt was devastated, the people suffered, and the land decimated. No one was immune.  Except for the final "plague" or "disaster," the ten makot are rooted in the natural order of things. There's nothing implicitly supernatural or miraculous about them. Of course, Moses knows when they are going to occur even before they happen but that can be written off as a product of his keen perception of nature or maybe just plain luck. Some of the plagues affect the Egyptians and not the Israelites, but that too is also the nature of natural disasters: some people are affected by disasters and others aren't. Some live and some die.

 

 The Hebrew word, Makot, however, changes the way we perceive these tragic occurrences. By referring to them as Makot, they become more than just natural disasters - they become a product of God's powerful hand in the world. They are an expression of judgment. The Makot are punishments and not simply some natural phenomenon. God strikes the Egyptians down and discomforts Pharaoh. Even the Egyptians come to recognize the finger of God in these terrifying events.

 

 At the beginning of this week's portion, Parshat Bo (Exodus 10:1-13:16), God reiterates the reason for the Makot: "I have hardened the heart of Pharaoh and his courtiers in order that I might display My signs among them, and that you may recount to your children and your children's children that I am Adonai." Besides the problem of God hardening the heart of Pharaoh we are left with another problem here. It would appear that the Makot served some higher theological purpose: they were meant to convince Pharaoh of God's power and teach the Israelites about God's presence in the universe. The Makot gave the people of Israel something that they could tell their children about for generations to come.

 

 The idea, however, that we learn about God through the suffering of others troubles us and it troubled the sages too. Wasn't there another way to teach the Israelites and the Egyptians about God? Why must we do so through nature? And when nature inflicts devastation and suffering on us, is it right to assume that those who suffer had it coming; that they are somehow deserving of God's punishment?  Rabbi Harold Kushner calls this the second injustice: it's bad enough that people sometimes suffer unfairly; it's even worse when others tell them that they are deserving of such suffering.

 

 So what's the difference between a plague and a disaster? Is there really any difference at all? Most likely there were innocent people in Egypt who suffered because of Pharaoh's decisions. The Torah says that the final plague affected every family, "from the first born of Pharaoh who sat on the throne to the first born of the captive who was in the dungeon and even the first born of the cattle!" Pardon the pun but surely this is overkill! Why should the cattle have to die? Why should the first born of the captives become a victim of the angel of death? Did they make the decrees against the Israelites? What are we to make of all of this? 

 

These are all good questions; unfortunately there are no simple answers. Maybe there are no answers at all! Some people explain that the conflict between Pharaoh and God is a little like a war. Just as there are innocent victims in every war, there were people and even animals who suffered because of Pharaoh's cruel and stubborn decisions. Bombs don't distinguish between the guilty and the innocent. And plagues don't distinguish between people either.

 

Others would argue that there were no innocent people in Egypt. There were perpetrators of the crimes against the Israelites and those who were bystanders and apathetically did nothing to stop Pharaoh and his courtiers. Apathy is a crime too!

 

In the end, I believe that there is no distinction between a plagues and a disaster, and the sages were very much aware of this fact. When they suggested that we should dip our finger into the cup of wine at the Passover Seder to lessen the amount of wine in our cup while reciting the plagues, they were trying to teach us an important lesson: suffering is suffering. It doesn't matter who is suffering or what they have done or what the cause of the suffering might be. When we witness suffering, compassion is called for. It is not our place to judge others. It is our responsibility to lessen the pain that we see in their lives. The Israelites didn't rejoice in the suffering of their oppressors. They are silent throughout the ten plagues. It is only at the Sea that they sing and then they turn to God grateful for their redemption, not vindictive or angry at their enemies.

 

Maybe that is why the Israelites were allowed to plunder the Egyptians before they left Egypt. By taking property as payment for their years of service in Egypt, the Israelites were able to leave Egypt without anger or animosity. They did not bear a grudge. In fact the Torah commands not to hate the Egyptian because we were strangers in the Land of Egypt. What an extraordinary statement this is! Of course we had every reason to hate Egypt but we are commanded not to do so. Hatred adds nothing to our lives.

 

We Jews truly have an extraordinary tradition. We have our faults just like everyone else. But if we have learned anything from our tradition it is that life is too short to hate and even those who have hurt us deserve our compassion.  Plagues, floods, tornados, or disasters: whatever they are and for whatever reason they happen, they deserve our compassionate response. We can never know the reasons for things: only that they happened. These days when we are so focused on events outside of our community, we need to remember that there are others in need of our compassionate care.  It's easy to become overly concerned about the dramatic events that appear on the front page of the newspaper - there are other quieter, but no less devastating disasters closer to home taking place all the time.  Do we hear the cry of our neighbor?

Shabbat Shalom

Rabbi Laurence P. Malinger

TOT SHABBAT  

Tot Shabbat services take place at 7pm on specific Fridays

Dates - 09.XX,  10.08,  11.12,  12.10,  01.09,  02.11,  03.11,  04.08,  05.13,  06.10

Join with your pre-school child in welcoming Shabbat at this special service created for 3 to 5 year olds and their families.  Join us for age appropriate prayers, songs, stories and dances.  All Tot Shabbat services start at 7:00 p.m. and are followed by a social oneg with juice and snacks.  Tot Shabbat is free and open to the entire community. This service is lead by the Rabbi and Cantor.

For more information about the service or to volunteer to help, contact the Temple office at 732-566-2621.

 

                                                        For more information, contact Rachel Robinson

KABBALAT SHABBAT  

First Friday of the Month Kabbalat Shabbat
Service at 6:30 p.m. and dinner in the social hall at 7:30
Dinner is NOT available after services during the months of July and August

Third Friday of the Month Kabbalat Shabbat
Service at 6:30 p.m. and bring your own dinner for afterwards
Sandwiches and a side salad may be ordered from Nolan at 732.485.9503 
 

The Kabbalat Shabbat service is usually shorter than our traditional Friday night services with lots of music. It’s a great way for families with younger children to enjoy Shabbat together and with the temple community. Congregants of all ages are invited to sing and pray along with Rabbi Malinger and Cantor Camhi at this worship service.

 

After services, congregants and guests are welcome to join in the social hall for dinner. Dinners will only be provided for those who make reservations the previous Wednesday with the Temple office at 732-566-2621. Feel free to bring your own dinner (kosher-style please!) as long as you inform the office by Friday so enough seating will be provided. 

 

Whatever you decide to put on your plate, as always, we'll provide a warm atmosphere, nicely set tables, "fruit of the vine," challah, drinks and desserts. Bring your family and friends.

SHABBAT with SHIR MISHEGAS  

 

Shir Mishegas

Temple Shalom's Liturgical Band

Shabbat Music with a Twist


Band picture has 3 men members and 7 women members

Standing: Mike Juros, Randy Rubinstein, Chaya Schneider, Carla Zimmerman, Margo Wolfson

Sitting: Asher Wasserman, Sam Tobias, Rebecca Rubinstein, Kayla Schneider-Smith

Not Pictured: Basha Alade

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